Key takeaways

  • Having children and growing a family can be expensive. Taking the time to create a financial plan, including creating a budget, obtaining insurance, understanding taxes, and managing investments, can guide you toward financial stability.
  • New parents can benefit from being flexible. For example, making budget changes as needed and saving even small amounts each month for retirement.
  • Financial planning can be complex. If you get stuck, research potential financial and tax advisors who have experience working with families.

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According to the Brookings Institution, the estimated annual cost, adjusted for inflation, of raising a child to the age of 18 is $310,6051. That can seem overwhelming, but if you plan ahead, not only can it be manageable, but you can save enough money to potentially reach goals, from having a child to saving for college to retiring. 

To help you, we put together this guide with a 10-point checklist full of financial and tax planning areas to consider. Whether you are planning to have a child or already have two, this guide is here to help you navigate the complexities of financial life.

The 10-Point Checklist for New Parents and Families:

  1. Plan for first-year baby expenses
  2. Create or update your household budget
  3. Build an emergency fund
  4. Understand available tax benefits
  5. Obtain proper levels of insurance
  6. Start planning for college expenses
  7. Prioritize your retirement savings
  8. Consider estate planning
  9. Consider setting up a custodial account
  10. Work with expert advisors as needed

Tax and Financial Planning for New Parents and Families

Proper financial planning early on for new parents and families can reduce stress and support a more stable environment for a child’s growth. Raising children is expensive, from child care to college, but with the right planning, your family can balance short-term and long-term goals.

In this checklist, we’ll cover:

The 10-Point Tax and Financial Planning Checklist

From planning to cover expenses during your child’s first year to saving for education and retirement, follow this checklist to help you shape a healthy financial future.

1. Plan for first-year baby expenses

Planning ahead of time for first-year baby expenses is critical as it sets the tone for financial management as new parents. There can also be unexpected expenses, from smaller necessities to medical costs like prescriptions and doctor visits. Start by listing all anticipated expenses, such as nursery furniture, baby gear, daily supplies (diapers and formula), and medical expenses, including additional insurance. Research average costs in your area to set realistic expectations.

To help manage these costs effectively, consider:

2. Create or update your household budget

With the addition of a new family member, your spending patterns will change. Create or update your household budget to reflect increased expenses such as childcare, healthcare, and baby essentials. 

Budgeting steps to take include:

3. Build an emergency fund

An emergency fund is more crucial than ever with the arrival of a child. Aim to have at least three to six months’ worth of living expenses saved. This fund can cover unexpected events such as medical emergencies or job loss. Consider your career and the amount of risk of losing a job. For example, a freelance consultant, a startup tech employee, and a public school teacher will likely all have different needs when building an emergency fund.

To build an emergency fund, consider:

4. Understand available tax benefits

Familiarize yourself with tax benefits for parents and families, such as the Child Tax Credit, Child and Dependent Care Credit, and Earned Income Tax Credit. Also, be sure that you are claiming all eligible state tax benefits when you file your tax return. The non-profit TCWF provides a map of resources to help you look up state tax benefits.

Consider working with a tax advisor to:

5. Obtain proper levels of insurance

Review and adjust your insurance coverage to meet your family’s needs. This includes health insurance, life insurance, and possibly disability insurance.

Review the following coverage:

6. Start planning for college expenses

As of 2023, the average cost of college in the U.S.3 is $36,436 per student per year, according to the Education Data Initiative. The earlier you start saving for college, the better. Consider opening a 529 college savings plan, which offers tax advantages and can be used for tuition, books, and other educational expenses. 

To start saving for education, consider:

7. Prioritize your retirement savings

You’ll have to balance planning for retirement savings with other long-term savings needs, such as college tuition. As you think about this balance, consider that there are numerous ways to pay for college education, but you cannot turn back the clock to save for retirement. Either start or continue contributing to your 401(k), IRA, or self-employed retirement account, especially if there is an employer match which is essentially free money. 

Strategies to make saving easier include:

8. Consider estate planning

Estate planning ensures that your assets are handled according to your wishes and provides for your children’s care. Without a proper estate plan, your assets may be distributed according to federal and state law, and further, inadequate planning can potentially subject your estate to unnecessary taxes and probate fees.

The general components of an estate plan potentially include:

9. Consider setting up a custodial account

UTMA (Uniform Transfers to Minors Act) or UGMA (Uniform Gifts to Minors Act) accounts, also known as custodial accounts, can be a way to save for your child’s future needs. They can be used for education, a first car, a wedding, or other significant expenses. They are designed to hold and protect assets for minors until they reach the age of majority in their state, which is typically 18 or 21 years old, depending on the state’s laws. These accounts are commonly used by parents, grandparents, and others to gift assets to a minor without the need for a formal trust.

When setting this up:

10. Work with experienced advisors as needed

Engaging with financial advisors, tax professionals, or estate planners can be helpful as you navigate having children or a growing family. Advisors aim to offer personalized advice tailored to your family’s needs and may help navigate complex financial decisions. 

To help select advisors, consider:

Financial and Tax Planning at Every Stage of Life

Whether you’re starting a family or starting a business, at Harness, we find hand-picked top tax, financial, and estate firms around the United States with the goal of helping you find the best advisor for you.

Once paired with an advisor, you’ll receive the guidance to create a comprehensive financial plan, balancing short-term and long-term needs. From financial to tax to legal planning, the Harness platform can connect you to the services you need at every stage of life. Explore Harness services today.

 

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Sources:

  1. Welch, Morgan and Sawhill, Isabel. Brookings Institution, August 2022, estimated annual expenditures on a child born in 2015, adjusted for inflation using an average annual rate of  2.23% for years 2015 – 2020 and 4.0% after 2020, through the age of 17.
  2. Renter, Elizabeth. Would-be Parents Unprepared for Cost of a Baby – NerdWallet, 2017, potential costs are based on theoretical households with income of $40,000 and $200,000, respectively. The methodology used for these calculations estimate the total cost of raising a baby in the first year of life by adding all annual totals in the following categories: housing; food; transportation; child care; out-of-pocket health care costs; health insurance; cost of starting a college savings account; life insurance; and toys, clothes and other miscellaneous costs. Additional assumptions included the lower income family wouldn’t qualify for substantial government assistance and the higher income family included costs of life insurance for both parents, in-home nanny car, and the recommended amount of college savings. For additional information on the studies used, methodology, and assumptions, visit www.nerdwallet.com/article/insurance/cost-of-raising-baby.
  3. Hanson, Melanie. “Average Cost of College & Tuition” EducationData.org, May 28, 2024, https://educationdata.org/average-cost-of-college